Blessed & Curvy

Do Overs I keep hearing this term "Do Overs" So if you could do something over what would it be? The thought process is that the first time didn't count so this is a do over. So I started to reflect what would I do over. I am close to 50 so would I have chose a different path? Maybe Would I have met different people and had different relationships? Not sure because you draw people to you according to the book the Secret. Would I have made different life decisions that impact work and where I lived? Yes Everything happens for a reason and once you become confident in your choice it is what it is. Right? Now if I hurt someone feelings I think that would be a do over because that is not an intention. I would want do over to make it right. I remember as a 20 something woman my plan were to get married, have 2 kids, and live the American dream. I pushed it out ten years further because I wanted to climb the corporate ladder and be more financially stabl...

My Heart I hid it for years Didn't want to feel the pain of the hurt the one that left me with it Walls up to protect the feelings I met the one and I pushed him away Not on purpose I am crying now because I can't remember how to trust I can't remember how to fall in love I don't want to lose you How do I love? I want the love like my parents I ask others how did they know? You're persistent I asked you why? You said because there was a twinkle in my eyes I want to love I hold you in my arms and a flutter in my heart starts Instead of asking others I ask you how to love You place your hand on my heart and say trust you I want to love you I want to learn how to love Lust has left and Love has come in I want to love I feel the pounding of my heart The walls are tumbling down You kiss me and between the tears My Heart is awaken I want to love you You are teaching me how to love again My Heart Patricia A. Saunders Author of ...

What a difference a day makes I love that song but I have been reflecting on life In 24 hours someone is pushing out a newborn baby into this world In a day a family is making final decision for a love one What a difference a day makes If tomorrow isn't promised to no man What are you doing today? Are you writing out your bucket list? Are you living the bucket list? What a difference a day makes I sat down in front of the computer and I cried I cried because it's been over 60 days since my hands touched the keys I missed writing ... I missed the creative juices flowing What a difference a day makes I realized that life is too short That the ones who I love know it It's not on material items but heartfelt love I confess my love to you dear What a difference a day makes To understand that money doesn't buy happiness That the richest person is the one who is humble Yesterday I was blue dear but.... What a difference a day makes By Patricia A. Saun...

Got to Kiss Alot of Toads Have you heard that phrase? You got to kiss alot of toads before you find your prince I remember when I was much younger a girlfriend explaining don't fret over lost love another love was coming I even remember another saying that there are plenty of fish in the sea So the question I poise is are you settling for a toad passing for a prince or is he really the prince? I see women at various stages of their lives and they just give up or give in They decide that they want to be in a relationship so some will dumb up Meaning that they downplay intelligence They don't share their true value for fear of rejection If they have acquired assets they will tell the male they lie and say they don't Who wants to be in a relationship where you are starting off with lies I remember my parents stating that you have to be evenly yokes Meaning you have the same values You have the same morals You acquire to want to both elevate each other Tim...

Being Thankful by Patricia A. Saunders  Thanksgiving is around the corner in a couple of weeks  And I am seeing posts on Facebook where people are saying each day what they are thankful for Its more than sitting around the table eating your favorite sweet potato pies, turkey and ham Growing up I remember my Mother staying up late making sure all of our favorite dishes were done to perfection She would get dressed up on Thanksgiving and my Father dress slacks and shirt and we would be so excited. When it was time to do the blessing I always hated it because my Mother took so long. I was starving and ready to dive into the candied yams, greens and ham. So now as an adult, having lost both parents the holidays bring up so many emotions. I am thankful to see another year I am thankful for having a roof over my head because there was a time I was on the brink of being homeless I am thankful for food in my refrigerator because there was a time that I could open it an...

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