Wednesday, March 22, 2017

Clock is Winding Down

As I age I think more about death                 

Don't ask me why but I take the time to reflect on life especially around my birthday

Questions I ponder:

Have I done everything on my bucket list?

Is there goals that I can scratch off my list that I have accomplished?

Did I say I love you to those I care about?

Has my work been all in vain?

Reading the obituaries that flash across social media death doesn't come to those who are old.

There are those who leave here because of natural causes of death, accidents, and illnesses. Infants, children

men and women are leaving their earthly home everyday. Nothing is promised. 

I know that my parents have been gone for a period of time but I still grieve them

The question that I ask  is who will shed a tear for me?

As I take my annual physical examination the doctor explained to me that my body is breaking down

Aging can impact your mind, body and your spirit

So I have to challenge myself this spring

Spring Cleaning will take a different approach

It won't be just clearing out the closets, closets, and files

I will be cleaning out the toxic relationships. Those that suck the life out of me.

Next I remember as a child I was so active and I became as I aged so accustomed to being inactive

We only get one life to live and I have to practice what I preach

I have to smell the flowers, travel the world, and move to the beat of a different drum

The clock is winding down but I got so much more to complete before it stops

I write this blog monthly and I love to hear from you

Whether it be words of encouragement, how you deal with challenges, are you doing your own self inventory?

Submitted :
Patricia A. Saunders
Author, Blogger, Poet

Friday, February 24, 2017

As the month of February is coming to a close

I poise a question to you all

How are you rating with your relationships?

Definition of relationship

  1. 1 :  the state of being related or interrelated <studied the relationship between the variables>
  2. 2 :  the relation connecting or binding participants in a relationship: such asa :  kinshipb :  a specific instance or type of kinship
  3. 3a :  a state of affairs existing between those having relations or dealings <had a good relationship with his family>b :  a romantic or passionate attachment
There are different types :




Are you investing time into each?

If you find yourself spending more time not communicating, spending quality time, showing that you care you might want to reevaluate 

Life is too short and tomorrow isn't promised so if they mean anything to start investing.

Don't have unnecessary stress, conflict, and end relationship that are salvageable.

Pick up the phone, go see them, write a little note.

Don't wait until its too late and they're gone

What do think?

Want to hear from you.


Patricia A. Saunders
Blogger, Author, Poet

Tuesday, January 31, 2017

You're Not Welcomed

Wave of emotions

Flood my being

I can only imagine

The door being closed in my face

I have no place to go

Ripped from my family's grasps

No warning

Waiting on the other side is my freedom

You're not welcomed here is what the sign reads

A melting pot?

The land of the free?

Innocent not doing anything wrong

You have helped make America great

Your only sin is what you believe in

It could have been me

The feeling of traveling abroad and coming home

To be turned away

Or you are coming to see a sick loved one

I am sorry but you're not welcomed

I watched as the elderly man wept

His tears ran down his cheek and he said I am a good person


We stand with him in solidarity and can't explain

The only thing we can all do now is pray

Pray for the families separated

Pray for peace

Pray for they know not what they do!!!

Patricia A. Saunders
Blogger, Author, Poet

Saturday, January 21, 2017

Back in the saddle again

Welcome back !!!

It's a new year and people are making promises to do things differently

Going to the gym, eating healthier and turning over a new leaf

Also what we have stayed low key about is how many people are afraid what this new year is going to bring

There is a new leadership, new agendas, and people are scared that they won't be heard.

So for those of us over fifty years old let's get back to basics!!!

For those who are faith based get back into your relationship with your prayer life

For those who want to start their own business start asking those who you admire to mentor you

For those are angry because of the situation remember the mind is a powerful tool that no one can take

from you .

Stop and get back in the saddle again there is a wealth of resources in front of you.

We as a people we need to come together and help each other and not divide

If I have a wealth of knowledge on a subject and someone was to ask me for advice I would gladly share it

I think we are going to see alot more home entertainment, potlucks, co-ops, rent parties

Women are powerful because we have the talent to nurture others, multi-tasks and run two businesses at the

same time ( our homes and other we get a check from).

Think like our parents who went through so much worse and how they overcame obstacles

So yes take care of your mind, body and soul!

Get that old school mentality where you thought out your strategy of how you will not be defeated but how

you will get back in the saddle again and you win!!!


Patricia A. Saunders
Blogger, Author, Poet

Tuesday, December 27, 2016

Lipstick Blog Tour with D. Michele Jackson

Greetings from the Desk of Patricia A. Saunders , Blessed and Curvy is a hosting Lipstick Blog Tour


 Ella D. Curry of Black Pearl Magazine sat with the author for an interview about her newly released book. 

Intimate Conversation with D. Michele Jackson

Donna M. Jackson is an African-American woman, a Philadelphia native, Tuskegee University alumna, and a Registered Nurse. Writing as D. Michele Jackson, she now adds writer, published, politically active nurse to her accolades. Her sociology studies at Tuskegee University and twenty-year nursing career enabled Donna to be prepared when the opportunity of Legal Nurse Consultant availed itself as she represented herself Pro Se in court. That experience allowed Donna to draft briefs during a historical time affording her a voice advocating for health. Donna submitted argument to Congress supporting amending the Nineteenth Amendment. Mission is to encourage, educate, and empower.

BPM: Could you tell us something about your most recent work?

People who know me will always have a story of me singing in some off beat. I finally hit the perfect note with “JOY”. It is the story of a woman’s divorce experience that afforded her a voice for wellness.

As a defendant representing herself Pro Se, the main character finds herself presenting argument explaining why she should not become homeless post-divorce. Scheduled to be heard last by the presiding judge allowed the defendant to use her nursing assessment skills as she listened to a divorce case. Honing in on health after hearing the judge’s verdict, the defendant was able to make a nursing diagnosis. The judicial system dropped the gavel against well-being, and it becomes the defendants quest to fight not only for herself, but an ailing nation as well. The book is available on Nook and Kindle.

BPM: Give us some insight into your main characters or speakers. What makes each one so special?

The main character is the defendant. She takes us on a journey of the men she dated prior to marriage, and how each of the relationships offered facts for consideration in legal briefs forwarded to the Supreme Court of the state of origin, which led to the United States Supreme Court. It is the man she’s divorcing that allows a platform writing as a Legal Nurse Consultant. In hindsight, after failed relationships, the other characters enabled the defendant to form opinions on health. The once defendant, final brief is to Congress presenting argument supporting amending the Nineteenth Amendment. The experience could be considered the epitome of taking lemons and making lemon aid.

BPM: What inspired you to sit down and actually start writing this book? Why now?

The story started with me writing what I thought would be a good and entertaining read. Twice, I understood God to say, “That’s not the story.” I stopped writing. When I decided to begin writing again (after divorcing), the story had written itself. Now, that’s God!

Inspiration to me is always my Lord and Savior, Jesus the Christ. The women who spoke into my spirit. The smirk on the man I divorced face at my most vulnerable point in life. My battered heart. The possibilities that await as a result of sharing my story. The book was written at the perfect time as history is on my side.

BPM: What did you enjoy most about writing this book?

People often remember me as always wanting to be a nurse. What many don’t know, my motivation to go to nursing school was to have a career that would offer me a salary I could live off working part-time while attending law school. Later in my career I learned about Legal Nurse Consultants. The older I became, I had a peculiar interest in law. As difficult the journey has been, I find pleasure in the fact “JOY” took me to the halls of justice as a self-taught consultant practicing Constitutional Law.

BPM: Where do your book ideas come from? Are your books plot-driven or character-driven?

“Amazing Grace: A Tribute to You, The Story of Us” is the first book of a trilogy. “JOY: Jesus on You” is the second book. Both “Amazing Grace” and “JOY” were divinely inspired. “Amazing Grace” is an introduction of me written in a memoir. I would have to say it is character driven. My second book comes across as plot-driven.

“JOY” is the mark I hope to leave on society. “JOY” is an extension of “Amazing Grace” in both stories you see a woman of faith. In “Amazing Grace” the woman is trying to find her way to proper positioning before God. In “JOY” the woman is being used by God to fulfill His plan and purpose in her life. Both are stories of change offering hope and liberation.

BPM: Are there under-represented groups or ideas featured in your book? If so, discuss them.

As taught as a student attending Drexel University, School of Nursing, I presented to Congress as a politically active nurse advocating for health. I wrote to the 113th Congress, submitting bipartisan opportunity to holistically reform health and promote preventative care for: women, children, men, elderly, gay, poor, and rich. Globally, women are not progressing socially and economically as men. That fact is reflected in my own profession. “Men are more likely to be found in highly-paid nursing occupations. Among men and women in the same nursing occupations, men out earn women.” Retrieved January 28, 2016:
I advocated for health from every perspective impeding well-being.

BPM: How does your book relate to your present situation or journey?

Currently I am staying with a friend and her family. I wrote the briefs from the homes of people in multiple states. Since divorce, my health suffered as a result of working understaffed as a nurse. Currently, my position has caused a reinjure. The home that I won fairly and was displaced from was my home office as well. I was working on a start-up business promoting health.

Prior to marriage, I was talking to my first boyfriend as he gave advice regarding my consideration of getting a second job. He advised, the answer is not getting a second job. You need to find one good job paying adequately. I divorced a man who suggested I should get a second job. My father concurred with the first advice received. The man I divorced signed papers allowing the business. I presented the document to the judge as one of my exhibits. He documented the proof submitted as “voluminous”.

I’m very humbled when it comes to my education, and my memoir explains why. My personality is one that tucks my intelligence away, and I prefer to exhibit my fun and loving characteristics when interacting with people. However, after being grossly disrespected through the divorce process, I had no problem with reaching into my pocket of knowledge, combined with endowed wisdom from God and show the dishonest rendering that God will use an unknown from the hood to address injustices.

I am grateful for my relationship with God. Without the Lord on my side, I would have crumbled and died.

BPM: Did you learn anything personal from writing your book?

I had to consider how strategic I was in approaching marriage. I asked what I thought to be all the right questions. Important to me was knowing if he was a believer of the resurrection of Christ. I was honest with who I was as a person, and that included the baggage I carried; my goals, ambitions, and desires as an individual and a wife. Although at this point, I only remember my discussions of me as an individual. I think that is because I never had a realistic opportunity of being a wife with the man I divorced, and unfortunately I learned that fact after becoming married.

My time as a single woman again has broadened my views on matrimony. A more telling line of questioning would have been related to can God trust you with my heart. Are you the man God has sent to relive me of the turmoil that lies within? Do you understand the importance of relationship with God and the role it plays as a husband who can cover his wife in prayer allowing her to become the help meet God created? Are you committed to the vows? I believe had these points been addressed, the issues that were discussed prior to marriage would have proven insignificant because we would have truly been on one accord. Subtly, I had been groomed for marriage my entire life; as excited I was about becoming engaged, I marveled at finally having my opportunity to love a man wholeheartedly as I have always known the holy state of matrimony is endearing to God.

I would have to say I learned how much God is on point in all that He does.

BPM: Can you share some stories about people you met while researching this book?

The only “research” I had to do for the book was legal related. As a result, I was truly at the mercy of some people. I reached out to many people for help. I met kind and helpful law students. I met law students with sealed lips. I met honest attorneys. I met corrupt attorneys. I reached out to people who could care less. My favorite attorney was Attorney Johnny Cochran. After learning that I may have given the benefit of doubt too freely in many instances regarding attorneys, I never forwarded my request for help to his firm. I made that decision as a result of my experiences with requesting assistance. I didn’t want to risk having his name tarnished in my memory.

BPM: What were your goals and intentions in writing this book, and how well do you feel you achieved them?

First and foremost, to honor Jehovah. To offer the world His Son, Jesus – The coming Messiah. To reveal Him as a loving God that loves us all the same. Then, to honor the sacrifices of my mother. I also wanted to pay tribute to talented people, prominent figures, women who paved the way, and leaders who made a difference so that I would have opportunity to do the same for others. I’m proud to say I nailed my goals.

BPM: What projects are you working on at the present?
Inspired by the last ten years of my life which have been quite traumatic for me, I recall how this slippery slope began with me in a hospital with my mother waiting to go in the operating room. It was in that holding room I now understand that a promise for everlasting life was initiated and sealed with a kiss. I present as that vessel that offers what Abraham Maslow describes as fulfilling Self Actualization.

The Lipstick Movement is a vision of mine with a focus on upward mobility. Welcome to the Lipstick Blog Tour:

BPM: How can readers discover more about you and your work?

Order JOY – Jesus on You by D. Michele Jackson
Novel Based on a True Story
Travels of the Promises Trilogy (Book 2)

eBook Release Date: December 06, 2016

About the Author
Donna M. Jackson is an African-American woman, a Philadelphia native, Tuskegee University alumna, and a Registered Nurse. Writing as D. Michele Jackson, she now adds writer, published, politically active nurse to her accolades. Her sociology studies at Tuskegee University and twenty year nursing career enabled Donna to be prepared when the opportunity of Legal Nurse Consultant availed itself as she represented herself Pro Se in court. That experience allowed Donna to draft briefs during a historical time affording her a voice advocating for health. Donna submitted argument to Congress supporting amending the Nineteenth Amendment. Website:

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Patricia A. Saunders
Blogger, Poet, and Author

Starting Over

Starting Over

As the year 2016 is coming to a close there is so much to ponder

Great Icons have passed David Bowie, Prince, Carrie Fisher to name a few.

The first man to walk the moon has accepted his new assignment and is now in heaven

The most controversy over an election that I have witnessed in my 1/2 century is not over and more are frighten of what is to come

Children are disappearing off the streets leaving their homes to never return

You turn on the news and there is a bombing here, a shooting there at a mall, and another life lost

We look to our leaders for guidance and what I have heard on television, radio and witnessed it all are unsure

Some will tell you to stay focused we have gone through much worse

Others will be religious and tell you to trust God

I just want to start over!

I want to wake up to no wars here in the United States or abroad. You say what wars in the United States?

There is a war where there is killing taking place in the United States from all races men, women, children are being killed.

I want to have feel safe walking down the street or better yet driving on the highway

I want to look at my neighbor and feel that I don't have to worry about hate in his heart that will harm me

I want 2016 to be over and I want 2017 to usher in new beginnings

I want to know that though we have someone new in the oval office that he remembers that the world that he governs will have to be safe for his children, grandchildren and their children

I want to coexist in a peaceful world

As I sit and exhale as the time passing so fast

I want feel free to be me

So I ask what do you want?

Submitted by
Blogger, Author, Poet Patricia A. Saunders
Award Winning Author of This Too Shall Pass